{"id":13245,"date":"2020-01-14T19:29:21","date_gmt":"2020-01-15T00:29:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/brandywinebooks.net\/?p=13245"},"modified":"2020-01-14T19:29:21","modified_gmt":"2020-01-15T00:29:21","slug":"self-promotion-for-passive-aggressives","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brandywinebooks.net\/?p=13245","title":{"rendered":"Self-promotion for passive-aggressives"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Photo credit: Maarten van den Heuvel @ mvdheuvel<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nothing to review today. <\/strong>My reading has slowed in the last couple days, which is not all bad. I\u2019m trying to reduce my book spending, due to the current cutbacks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Which will be exacerbated by the plumber\u2019s appointment I had\ntoday. My kitchen faucet succumbed to the corrosive water we enjoy in\nRobbinsdale, and had to be replaced. I got the cheapest model they offered, but\nstill\u2026 ouch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then out into the wide world and chill air, for a breathless visit to the drug store and the grocery store. Had my prescription filled at CVS. Later in the day, a somewhat pathetic e-mail showed up. Would I take a minute to fill out a form for them? Specifically, to indicate on a scale of one to ten how likely I am to recommend their enterprise to friends and family?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I don\u2019t really want to fill it out. Because the truth would\nbe cruel. I am somewhere between zero and one on that scale. Not because I\ndislike their stores. But because I can\u2019t recall ever discussing drug store\nchoices with any friend or family member. For some reason it just doesn\u2019t come\nup. Maybe we\u2019re atypical.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And in the back of my mind, the constant nagging voice of my inner publicist whispers: \u201cThis is what you should be doing, kid. If a big industry like CVS can send out plaintive appeals for affirmation, you can occasionally bug your fans about plugging your books and posting reviews on Amazon.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Shut up, Nagging Publicist Voice. In these parts, we consider fishing for compliments a mark of weakness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then off to the grocery store. At checkout, the lady in\nfront of me in line noticed I\u2019d bought a Marie Callender Honey-Roasted Turkey meal.\n\u201cIs that good?\u201d she asked. \u201cMy husband and I eat a lot of that kind of meals,\nbut we\u2019re looking for something less bland than what we\u2019ve been having.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I told her I like it quite a bit, and don\u2019t find it bland at all. (“Of course I’m Norwegian,” I should have added.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oddly enough, I had a similar conversation some years ago, at the same store, with a guy who told me how much he enjoyed that very same frozen meal. I agreed with him, and we shared a moment of social harmony, then went our separate ways.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In my world, that\u2019s how promotion ought to be done. Not by intrusive tub-thumping, but by people just recommending things they like to each other, in the natural course of things. Even, unlikely as it seems, drug stores.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So when you plug my books, pretend it\u2019s just natural. Thank\nyou.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nothing to review today. My reading has slowed in the last couple days, which is not all bad. I\u2019m trying to reduce my book spending, due to the current cutbacks. Which will be exacerbated by the plumber\u2019s appointment I had today. My kitchen faucet succumbed to the corrosive water we enjoy in Robbinsdale, and had … Continue reading Self-promotion for passive-aggressives<\/span> →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[4,1],"tags":[2226,2532,2570],"class_list":["post-13245","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bookselling","category-uncategorized","tag-plumbing","tag-self-promotion","tag-shopping"],"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/brandywinebooks.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13245","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/brandywinebooks.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/brandywinebooks.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brandywinebooks.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brandywinebooks.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=13245"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/brandywinebooks.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13245\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/brandywinebooks.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=13245"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brandywinebooks.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=13245"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/brandywinebooks.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=13245"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}