{"id":21622,"date":"2026-02-04T19:54:41","date_gmt":"2026-02-05T00:54:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/brandywinebooks.net\/?p=21622"},"modified":"2026-02-04T19:54:41","modified_gmt":"2026-02-05T00:54:41","slug":"of-death-and-of-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/brandywinebooks.net\/?p=21622","title":{"rendered":"Of death, and of children"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
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Bad and good things today.<\/strong> The good came first, but I\u2019ll discuss it last.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Today, in the course of carrying out a routine task, I learned that a friend of mine had died last month. He was a member of my Viking group \u2013 not one of the regulars, but he showed up from time to time, and the two of us generally talked. But it was only at our last event, Viking Fest Minnesota last fall, that we discovered we shared very similar religious and social views. It may seem strange to know a guy for years and never learn that, but we generally keep off such topics at our events. Try to avoid kicking up divisions in the group. But lo and behold, Paul turned out to be One of Us. So we had a good talk. I looked forward to having more such talks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now that won\u2019t happen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He was almost two decades younger than me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Receive him into glory immortal, O Lord.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now to the positive stuff.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you scroll down this page a few inches, you\u2019ll see my meditation from the other day on some verses from Luke 18. I was pondering the contrast between the parable of the Importunate Widow and the parable of the Pharisee and the Tax Collector.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I saw the point of the first parable as encouraging chutzpah <\/em>\u2013 ask boldly; don\u2019t be shy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And I saw the point of the second as calling for humility.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Which seemed contradictory to me. I don\u2019t know how to reconcile the two things in my own life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This morning (having been kept from my devotions yesterday) I came to the passage that follows. And once again, context matters. Jesus Himself answers the conundrum he posed. It goes on like this, Luke 18:15-17:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Let the Children Come to Me<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

15<\/a><\/strong>Now they were bringing even infants to him that he might touch them. And when the disciples saw it, they rebuked them. 16<\/a><\/strong>But Jesus called them to him, saying, \u201cLet the children come to me, and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God. 17<\/a><\/strong>Truly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

And there, I think, is the answer, the truth that squares the circle. Who can be importunate like the Widow, and humble like the Tax Collector, all at the same time?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A child. Children ask without shame, and are humble by necessity. \u201cWhoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

So all I need to do is become like a child.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The actual problem remains as difficult as it was before, but at least I can articulate it now.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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