“And the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air, and so we will always be with the Lord. Therefore encourage one another with these words” (1 Thess. 4:16-18 ESV).
Encourage one another with the truth that those who die in faith will rise in faith. They have not been lost because they died before Christ’s return. These believers (including Paul, I presume) did not imagine it would be at least a couple thousand years before that return. Christ had ascended in their lifetime; why wouldn’t he come back in just a few years? Not matter when it happens, Christ’s physical resurrection and ascension is the reason we believe the dead in Christ will physically rise again.
The question for some of us is what state the body should be in for the resurrection. I heard a pastor on the radio this weekend claim the faithful would be raised from their graves as is. Of course, he said, God can reassemble any body from any state of decay, but why force him to do more than he needs to do. Why usher along the decay by cremating a family member? He asked, do you know Christ will not return a few days after your death? What if he does and there you are, a pile of ashes?
I can understand personal arguments for burial over cremation. Christian tradition leans that way. I’ve read that Christianized countries tend to bury the dead, and countries will little Christian influence tend to cremate. That’s not what we have here. The Bible does not imply we will be raised like zombies in whatever nasty state our bodies are in. Most of us (99.999% of us) will have no bodies in our graves, if we still have graves. Within a month of our interment, the best of us will not be presentable.
The Bible does tell us to respect our bodies. Our funeral services should be exercises in hope that honor the one who departed and those left behind. And since the Bible does not command Christians to bury the dead, some of us are asking whether the economic choice of cremation would show the proper respect.
That’s what it comes down to for me. In the past, burial would have been the cheapest, most natural option. Years ago when we talked to someone about buying grave plots, it was several thousands of dollars to be buried but only a few thousand, maybe only several hundred, to be cremated. I can understand how funeral and burial costs add up. When I buried my parents, I helped reduce those costs by buying caskets online. The cemetery part was already covered.
Covering a couple burials myself worries me a bit. It’s the kind of thing you can’t look up online because they won’t tell you the costs up front. You have to talk to a salesman. Hiding the price before you talk to a salesman is how they tell you it costs more than you want. They want a chance at talking you into it.
To the guy who thinks the Lord will raise the dead like zombies, come on. Even Lazarus came out of the tomb in better shape than his body had been that morning.
What do you think about burial and cremation for low-income believers?
My understanding is that the rejection of cremation had to do with separation from the world. Since the pagans often cremated their dead, and the Christians’ central message was the resurrection, they buried their dead as a testimony to that hope. But they never believed that the martyrs who were burned at the stake posed any particular problem for God in the resurrection. So it’s a non-biblical, cultural tradition. If the main concern is to do right by the survivors, and not waste money on embalming and other expensive processes (also the artifacts of tradition), I see no biblical objection. We’re not to let tradition interfere with charity (cf. Jesus’ criticism of the Pharisees’ use of the ‘corban’ custom).
In typical terms, burial according to ancient Christian tradition isn’t done. The choice is between cremation (which for some has suggestions of Asian religion) and Egyptian funerary practice, i.e. removal of some of the innards plus embalming. I’m pretty sure about the removal of innards, which I suppose are disposed of in some way that would distress the funeral party. So far as I’m concerned the ideal might be the respectful washing of the body, its wrapping in a shroud, a funeral within not very many hours after death, and burial with the body inside an inexpensive pine box. But I don’t even know if that is legal everywhere in the States.
I’ve only scanned a bit for what is strictly legal in the country or a state. How are the poor or the abandoned handled when they die?